Had a sit down with my therapist yesterday after the evaluator's office called me to discuss the upcoming court report. I basically rattled on and on to him about the fact that my unfortunate perfectionism traits are affecting how I'm suddenly panicking that I didn't send the court evaluator all the documentation I should have and that if the court custody case goes wrong, it will be due to the fact that I didn't provide enough proof.
This is of course, a silly notion, since the evaluator had probably already decided what he will write back in December and any additional paperwork I attempt to send now (or even a month ago) is most likely just backup examples with dates on them.
So even though I know this to be true, that didn't stop me from sending out 3 letters this week with more proof.
The stress is slowly creeping up.
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