Its been close to a year since the last posting. A lot of changes have taken place. So here's a short rundown:
We moved to San Diego. We got supervised visitation with the Grandpa. Kids refused to get in the car and we ended up having "curb-side 20 minute visits". That failed.
Back to court. We got therapy for the girls approved by the judge. Had some issues finding someone who was willing to take our case since we have rules like "non-confidential" and "must report to the court". We got supervised visitation with a professional $250 per hour monitor. Ouch. That turned out to be not such a good idea since she was more concerned about reunification of the dad and the kids then how the kids are coping. Kids usually left those visits in tears and turmoil. Finally found a child advocate local therapist for the girls. He specializes in children dealing with domestic violence issues. The girls love him. Bonus.
Recently we are back in court again and the professional visitation specialist wrote 2 letters stating that Dad is not a risk, kids are making false statements regarding alleged abuse. Mother is uncooperative and interfering with bonding between Dad and kids. Needless to say, I got reamed in court. Part of the reason for restarting this blog is I need to document everything for the next court hearing in July.
Details to follow soon now that we're caught up...
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